May 28, 2003

Drawbacks of Cyberfriendships

Over the past 12 years I have more and more emmersed myself in cyberspace. I have grown to basically live here, working and playing on a daily basis.

It's weird, but I have way more cyber friends than I do physical "real world" ones. Although some of them are both, most live so far away I am lucky to see them even once a year, if at all. Hell, Tim(/me waves) and I have never ever met, and we worked together for years.

And I think that is the draw back to such friendships. When you just need to get together after a crappy day and whine about it over a beer or a coffee, you just can't do it. After the hellish closure and failed rekindling of Merilus/NetMaster, my friendship with my best friend ended up with such a large wedge between us we seem to barely be able talk to each other. And when I look around now, I realize after so many years being reclusive in cyberspace and my work, all my close "real world" friends have moved farther and farther away, making it impossible.

Maybe thats why I find blogging so therapudic. Even though I can't really blog my deepest and darkest thoughts and feelings, it still seems to be alright.

Of course, I think I really need to get out to that big blue room and find some new friends, because I like going out for a drink... and hate drinking alone. And driving like 30 minutes to an hour just doesn't seem fun to me all the time. Oh well, I guess I should suck it up and just get back to this corona and my kernel debugger.

L8r

Posted by SilverStr at May 28, 2003 07:35 PM
Comments

If you come golfing with me I will buy you a drink on the 19th hole ? ? ?
That gets you into the big blue room too.

Posted by: muckhead at May 29, 2003 01:52 AM

Thanks for the offer. I will have to take you up on that offer one of these days.

Posted by: SilverStr at May 29, 2003 09:43 AM

Golf??? Did I hear someone mention golf?? You know, I haven't even gotten the clubs out yet this year!!! That is really sad...going to have to do that very soon!

Posted by: scoobyD at May 29, 2003 03:58 PM

Hmmm, thats 3. You know, if Bear pipes up, we would have a 4some. I think its time we all dusted off our clubs.

Posted by: SilverStr at May 29, 2003 04:27 PM